DIMINISHING RETURN

THE FOOD DILEMMA // In economics there is a Law of Diminishing Returns that says there is a certain point where you hit optimal level of capacity. Once you go above this point you’ll see a smaller increase in output. I have found this same rule to apply in my life with food, but I have a bad habit of ignoring it.

Have you ever eaten something, like a huge piece of cheesecake, where the first three or four bites were absolutely amazing, your next few were still delightful, but by the time you got to the last three or so bites you were stuffed, just forcing it, not because of satisfaction, but it was merely the principle of the thing and there’s no way you’re wasting a single bite of a $10 piece of cheesecake!

In this example, the diminishing return is the decrease in satisfaction from each bite of food. By the time you get to the end, there’s almost no satisfaction at all. If you’re anything like me, I find this law in my food habits almost daily. It’s the last few drinks of the watered-down pop. No bite compares to that first chance to sink your teeth into your favorite burger, but halfway through, you’re mindlessly eating. At the movies, you don’t even know what you’re shoving in your mouth as you’re so engrossed in the movie – you just know that it sounded good before the show started. Does any of this sound familiar?

The problem isn’t the diminishing return in what we consume. For me, one problem is that I continue to consume when I’m not even hungry. This might look playing board games with friends and snacking away even though I’m already full. Finishing my supper even though I wasn’t even that hungry, but didn’t want to waste – I mean, weren’t we taught to clean our plates and not waste? The other problem is eating food like sweets and not stopping when it’s not even worth it anymore. This could look like the cheesecake example I gave above. It also can look like eating sweets when I’m not hungry at all but they just sound yummy to my brain.

NEXT STEPS // Would your eating habits look different if you ate slower, listened to your body, and paid attention to food satisfaction? The goal isn’t to just eat food that tastes good. I eats lots of foods I don’t enjoy that are good for my body, like cooked carrots. The goal is to stop overeating mindlessly and actually enjoy those foods you are eating for satisfaction and stop when they aren’t worth it anymore.

If this is something you struggle with too, you can track what you eat on apps like Noom or MyFitnessPal to start seeing your habits and areas you can improve. This isn’t about calorie counting, but getting a better understanding of what you’re putting in your body and if that’s what you want to do.

That leads to my One Thing for the month of November: I’m going to focus on not eating after 7:00 PM. That’s one of my worst snacking times that I can live without.

TO MY BOYS // “I’m so proud of you. I’m thankful every day that I get to be your dad! You are the very best parts of me. You are dearly loved by your mom and me. Now go out there and do your best.” – Dad

THE ASCENT Part 4

RESTART BUTTON // I shared in THE ASCENT Part 3 of recent struggles in my Ascent to improve my health with the ultimate goal of reaching the age of 100 years old. I thought that month was just a hiccup and I would soon be back on the path to improving my health…I was wrong. At that time, I was up 5 lbs from the pervious month, 1 1/2 lbs more than when I started on my 40th birthday in July. This morning I weighed 219.5 lbs, 9 1/2 lbs more than last month and 10 lbs higher than my original weight 3 months ago. I realize that weight isn’t everything, but I also feel crappier. It’s been hard to wake up in the morning, I’ve had 4 migraines in the past week, my body just feels tired all the time. I feel stressed, anxious. What do I do about it? I keep shoving any food I can get to into my face and say I’ll start again tomorrow. That’s been really pretty much the sum of my adult life. I’ll gain weight, lose it for a while, gain weight, lose it for a while and never consistently keep it off.

Something needs to change. What is it?

I can’t keep doing this same thing and expect a different outcome. They say that’s the definition of insanity, right?! I’ve tried the workouts (P90X, NLXF, Crossfit, T25), worked out at gyms (LA Fitness, Planet Fitness, YMCA), tried having 1 cheat day a week, Noom, eating 1/2 of my french fries (my brother still makes fun of me for that). They all worked (except maybe the french fries), but they never stayed. So, what was wrong with them? There was one common denominator: Me.

ENVIRONMENTAL CHANGE // According to his blog on improving health and productivity, James Clear, author of Atomic Habits shares, “Making changes can be difficult. It’s hard to get motivated to do something over and over again – even when we know that it’s good for you.” Later on in the article he says, “You may think that you control most of your choices, but the truth is that a large portion of your actions every day are simply a response to the environment design around you.” He goes on to give some great tips of simple ways you can change the environment around you to get more of the outcomes that you want. If you want to floss more, make floss easier to get to. If you want to eat more fruit and less cookies – hide the cookies and put the fruit on the counter.

Where do I start? Do I go through all of my kitchen cupboards and throw away everything that isn’t going to get me where I want to go? Do I wake up at 5 AM every day and workout? Do I just eat clean foods that will better fuel my body? Yes.

Is that a simple enough answer? Listen, we all know what we need to do to become healthy, but we just usually choose the other option, right? I mean, c’mon! What is it going to take to change from knowing what we should do to transition to doing what we should do? I don’t know that answer yet, but you’re welcome to come along on this journey with me as I’m looking for a sustainable healthy lifestyle.

WHAT I’M TRYING // I’m going to try exactly what I said above. I’m going to start going to bed at 9:00 PM and getting up at 5:00 AM each morning. I still don’t know exactly what I’m going to do at that time, but I want to start the habit of showing up and I’ll figure it out as I go. I also plan on getting rid of those foods that don’t help me. Doesn’t mean I will never get to eat them, but I want them out of the house, and I want it to take an extra effort to eat the things that I don’t need. I also want to be picky about it – when I’m going to eat something that I won’t get very often, it’s gotta be the best! I’m talking Cheesecake Factory, not instant cheesecake. Lastly, I’m going to pretend I’m a healthy person and put food into my body like that healthy person I always imagined I would be. Maybe I can fake it until I make it!

GETTING STARTED // If you’re crazy enough, you’re welcome to join me in anything I’m trying here. Anytime you’re trying something that could effect your health, it’s good to run it by your Dr. If you aren’t interested in what I’m going to do, what is a habit you would like to start or stop? What is one thing you can do tomorrow to make it easier to start? Or what is one thing you can do to make it easier to quit?

TO MY BOYS // “You are one of the main reasons I’m doing this. I want to be there for you for a long time, and I realize that right now I’m only getting in my way. I’m so proud of you. I’m thankful every day that I get to be your dad! You are the very best parts of me. You are dearly loved by your mom and me. Now go out there and do your best.” – Dad